10 Signs It’s Time to Dump Your Friend

While no breakup is easy, one of the hardest kinds is ending a relationship with a friend. Since, unlike with family, you can pick your friends, choosing wisely will ensure you have a solid group of besties. A good friend is there for you no matter what life may bring, but a bad friend can oftentimes make life’s obstacles even more challenging, and sometimes be the catalyst for a downward spiral. If you’re wondering whether a certain friend is worth your time, these signs will help illuminate if you need to cut him or her loose.

1. They’re only around when they need something

Whether it’s venting about an obnoxious co-worker or asking for a helping hand when they move to a new apartment, if you notice you’re only hearing from your friend when they’re in need, he or she might not be a great friend. “Try to set some boundaries around ‘helping’ and inviting them to other things instead,” Helen Odessky, clinical psychologist and author of Stop Anxiety From Stopping You, said in an interview with The Cheat Sheet. “If they resist, it’s likely they’re not in the friendship for the right reason, so you should move on.”

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